A large number of cats live in houses and apartments next to people. Each owner decides which sex is better to choose.
Often preference is given to cats, as you don’t want to have problems with small kittens later on. After all, you need to place the kitten in good hands and take care of its safety. But it can be difficult with males, especially when they are growing up, when the body begins to ask for cats. What to do with a cat when he gets angry, nervous, and scours the house looking for a friend?
It is recommended to prepare in advance for such a change in your pet’s behavior and study the advice of experienced breeders and veterinarians . And then the period when cats begin to want females will pass without problems. An attentive owner will find the best option to calm the cat without causing harm to his health and psychological state?
Puberty
The development and maturation of cats depends largely on the breed ; it can occur at different times. But usually this is between 8 and 10 months of age . At this time, the owner of the animal may realize for the first time that the cat wants a cat. What are the signs of this physiological condition?
- The pet may lose its appetite . Even those delicacies that he adored until recently cease to be of interest to him.
- During maturation, cats noticeably increase the number of urinations . You have to clean your pet's litter box more often.
- One of the most visible signs is the loud noises the cat makes. If a cat has been yelling for several days, this indicates his sexual desires.
- The animal may not only meow loudly, but also try to escape into the street .
- One of the most unpleasant symptoms is that the animal marks its territory . A special secret that the cat releases in a stream onto the walls, floor, furniture, has an unpleasant odor, which is extremely difficult to get rid of.
A pet can attack not only humans, but also other animals living in the house. You should calm your cat using effective and safe methods. Sexual hunting can continue for a long time, you need to be patient and look for the best solution to the problem.
ATTENTION! During this period, you need to be careful, since a cat overcome by desire can even attack its owners, showing aggression.
It is worth finding out in advance at what age cats may develop sexual desire, and preparing sedatives for your pet and other means.
Possible reasons for refusing mating
Even when a male ardently demands to mate with the opposite sex, difficulties often arise in which the male categorically refuses to meet the female.
The reasons why a cat does not want a cat can be completely different. Let's consider the main ones :
- The animal feels uncomfortable in unfamiliar conditions. In this situation, there is only one way out - to breed the animals in the male’s territory.
- A cat often does not want to mate due to low levels of the sex hormone. But for a pet to completely lose interest in the opposite sex, the testosterone level must be incredibly low, otherwise it is necessary to look for another reason for the reluctance to mate.
- Perhaps the cat does not breed a cat because it is too young. This is due to the fact that animals reach puberty after the age of one year.
- A previously neutered pet loses interest in the opposite sex.
- The color of the opposite sex can play an important role. For example, a pet may be indifferent to the opposite sex with a bright black color, but at the same time, without problems, breeds a cat of a lighter color.
- Your furry friend simply doesn't like the female. If a cat shows aggression when meeting, the male often becomes disgusted. For this reason, the animal categorically refuses to mate.
How to calm a cat?
Veterinarians can offer several methods for cats that are excited by the cat's desire and behave restlessly and aggressively. It is advisable to listen to the advice of specialists who know the characteristics of the physiological development of the animal and the characteristics of the breed.
- Special sedative medications . Some of them, for example, “Anti-Meow”, regulate the animal’s hormonal levels. It is difficult to predict how this or that drug with hormones will affect your pet, so you should strictly follow the dosage, follow all the doctor’s recommendations, and do not abuse the medicine .
- Another method that cat owners often resort to is castration . This is a radical method; all its pros and cons should be weighed before pacifying the animal through surgical intervention. The operation will not take place without leaving a trace for the animal; then you will need to strictly monitor its diet, avoiding obesity. During castration, the cat's gonads are removed, after which the animal may be less active and not playful.
You need to be prepared for the fact that a castrated male can mark his territory, creating an extremely unpleasant odor in the house. That is why you need to think carefully about the issue of surgical intervention for a cat who wanted cats and tormented everyone with his screaming and aggression.
In order to calm the cat, some cat lovers advise using a clothespin that is attached to the animal’s scruff . Veterinarians previously used this method to immobilize a cat when performing injections and other procedures. But now they consider the method outdated. In addition, you can attach the clothespin incorrectly, which will cause pain for your pet.
Is it possible to give a cat valerian to calm it down?
Cats love the smell of valerian - this is a well-known fact, but the fact that this aroma calms the cat is a big misconception. It is known that for humans, valerian infusion serves as a natural sedative, but cats perceive this medicine differently.
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The fact is that the smell of valerian acts as a pheromone, i.e. causes excitement, so calming the cat in this way is not only impossible, but even dangerous - an overdose can lead to the death of the pet.
Features of the use of sedatives
Veterinary pharmacies can offer several types of medications to calm down an excited cat . Without the use of these medications, the animal will scream loudly, worry, and show aggression.
Several types of medicines are available - drops and tablets . Drops are most often produced on the basis of herbal preparations and herbs. Such remedies work well against aggression.
ATTENTION! Herbs, another natural remedy that calms the male, act safely and gently, but you must follow the dosage indicated in the instructions. When using herbal sedatives, you can observe changes in the animal's behavior such as drowsiness, lethargy, and decreased appetite.
The second group of drugs is hormonal tablets or drops . In case of overdose, they can cause serious health problems for your pet; you need to act very carefully.
You can give a hormonal drug only when the symptoms of sexual desire in a male are clearly visible, when it is no longer possible to calm him down by other means.
conclusions
It is unacceptable to abuse sedatives.
Frequent use can cause addiction to the animal and cause irreversible consequences for the body. Before using any product, consult a veterinarian. If, after taking the medicine, alarming signs are observed - lethargy of your pet, drowsiness, vomiting or diarrhea, you should immediately consult a doctor.
Is it possible to prepare an infusion yourself?
At home, you can also prepare sedatives based on various medicinal plants. Herbs such as peppermint, plantain, horsetail herb, and hawthorn blossom . The mixture of leaves of these plants is poured with boiling water and infused for 24 hours. The cat should be given this infusion four times a day, after meals. If the animal refuses to take the medicine, it can be added to the food.
Another effective collection is the leaves of mint, hops, motherwort, Baikal skullcap . The herbs are infused for five hours; the infusion should be strained. The dosage regimen is the same - four times a day. You can give motherwort to a cat during estrus, because females also go through a period of sexual heat.
Walks
If the animal lives in a private house, or is accustomed to returning to the apartment after a walk, it will find a way out for its desires. After having a walk, the cat will return home and will not bother the residents with restless behavior . Also, such males do not mark territory indoors.
INTERESTING! At first glance, this solution to the problem is simple, but a pet from the street can bring diseases, infections, and fleas. After a walk, you need to carefully examine your pet for wounds, scratches, and harmful insects.
A cat walking on the street should be examined frequently, because lichen or other diseases may not appear immediately. At what age should an animal be allowed outside? The kitten should get used to the house well; at first it is advisable to accompany it on walks.
Signs of aggression in cats
Before “going berserk,” your pet gives clear signals about an upcoming burst of aggression. How to determine that an animal is preparing to attack:
- angry grin;
- growling and hissing;
- mustaches and ears are pressed down;
- dilated pupils;
- wool standing on end;
- a crooked, awkward pose;
- looking directly at the target or clearly avoiding eye contact.
Cry from the heart
The cat looks angry, irritated, on edge, as if he is unable to relax, and explodes at the slightest provocation. Almost anything can provoke such a release of negativity - from the fright of an awakened animal to serious changes in the environment or place of residence. For example, it is almost guaranteed that a cat will “go mad” when there are a large number of strangers, the appearance of a new pet, or when moving frequently.
Aggression can be intraspecific (cat-cat) and interspecific (cat-another animal, cat-human). Also, sometimes the pet attacks and tears objects.
Sometimes the pet attacks and tears objects
The condition can appear suddenly and plunge the living object of attack into psychological shock - the same as the one in which the cat itself is.
Animal psychologists say: signs of aggression in cats very often mask fear and severe stress in which the animal itself is. The cat wants to, but cannot find a way out of the situation and understand it. He can be helped by simply understanding what led to the aggression.
How to pacify a cat?
Since females also experience strong sexual desire, their owners need to find the best way to solve the problem. There are several methods to pacify cats at home. How to determine the period of sexual arousal?
If the cat has already grown up and wants a date with the cat, she will yell loudly and often, squirm, behave restlessly, and eat poorly . This behavior is considered normal for the animal kingdom, but people feel uncomfortable because of it.
When a female wants a cat, it means she has begun her estrus period, confirming her readiness to mate and give birth to kittens. The cat experiences a surge of hormones, which changes its usual behavior . The first time attraction to a cat may appear after six months, but sometimes the cat begins to yell and rub against people and objects at 5 months. Among the ways that help calm it down:
- Sterilization. The operation is used when there are no plans to breed kittens.
- Sedative tablets, infusions, drops.
What to do in this case?
Many owners wonder what to do if the male refuses? The answer is simple. If for some reason the animal refuses to mate, it is necessary to postpone this process indefinitely. Do not under any circumstances try to forcefully mate a female . While waiting for the next mating, it is necessary to provide the male with physical and emotional peace. As soon as the female resumes her estrus period, the animals are brought together again.
First you need to properly introduce the animals. At first, you need to keep them at a distance from each other; the ideal option would be a carrier or cage. Next, the pets are released to get to know each other better, periodically taking them to different rooms.
What to choose for your pet?
If, due to its age, the cat already feels a strong attraction to cats, you can choose one of the methods to calm it down.
- Castration with removal of the gonads.
- Special drops so that the cats do not mark the corners of the apartment, behave calmly and not aggressively.
- "Dating" with a cat.
With any method, you should monitor the condition of your pet and constantly monitor its health.
What products help a cat during estrus?
As noted above, there are sedatives that help cope with desire, but do not completely eliminate it. These include: “Fitex”, “Cot-Bayun”, which contain herbal extracts, as well as “Stop-stress”, which contains various chemical components. Regardless of which drug you choose, the effect will be the same - the cat will become passive, lethargic, and sleep a lot.
Fitex helps a cat cope with desire
It is also appropriate to use drugs that are sold in a regular pharmacy. For example, tablets with valerian extract, which, although they cannot stop the release of hormones in an animal, are quite capable of calming it down. Taking one tablet twice a day will make your cat want to sleep, which means it will make much less noise.
You can try using birth control drops. To do this, you need to put 2 drops under your pet’s tongue or into her food, and after making sure that she has eaten everything, take her for mating after 4 hours. This way you can satisfy the cat's needs and avoid the cat bearing offspring. However, you should give such drops to your pet strictly on the recommendation of a veterinarian, who will indicate how to use them correctly. It is also worth noting that it is not recommended to abuse funds of this kind.
The Sex Barrier will help prevent your cat from going into heat.
Hormonal agents such as “Stop-Sex”, “Ex-5”, “Sex Barrier” and others, which are given to the animal strictly according to the regimen recommended by the veterinarian, will help prevent a cat from going into heat. Often, taking such medications is not without consequences, and as a result, severe hormonal imbalance.
Important! Hormonal drugs should be used extremely rarely to avoid breast disease and uterine cancer.
In addition, it makes sense to consult a veterinarian about what to do if a domestic cat wants a cat, and which of the above methods he will recommend using. Typically, veterinarians are supporters of sterilization, which helps to forget forever about the question of what to do during the period of heat when the cat screams and wants a cat. However, only you can decide which method will be the most acceptable and humane for your pet.